Monday, June 25, 2012

Hobbit-ish Potpurri: The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly

Hey Humble Readers...

I hope you are all doing well, wherever you're at today.  Things here on the flatland are trucking along.  Today started off with a rare summer fog, which was kind of nice.  I just wish I had thought to take pictures.  It's warm, but not too hot.  Now if we could just ditch the humidity (and I know that it's nothing like the humidity my eastern friends deal with) things might be completely comfortable in our little hobbit-hole.

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The Good:  Ginny.  Today she's been active, but manageable.  She took her morning nap without complaint, and SHE KEPT HER DIAPER ON!  Of course, she is wearing a onesie and jeans, so it would have been harder for her to get at it, but hey... I'm going to take my victories where I can get them.  She has also been fairly sweet to Pippin so far today, so that's an added bonus. 

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The Bad:  As of today, I'm going to begin winding down the breastfeeding/pumping.  Pip hasn't shown any inclination to get back on the breast, and when I pump for a half hour (15 minutes per side) I'm only getting two ounces.  It's time.  As of this morning, I'm only pumping for 10 minutes a side, and I will lower that to 5 minutes a side in a few days.  I'm also going to be going longer in between pumping sessions.  Instead of getting down on myself, I'm counting this as a sort-of victory.  Is it ideal?  No.  But it's a heck of a lot better than what I was expecting.  I've given our wee little mister a good start. 

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The Ugly:  Our finances suck.  Again.  Still.  I am doing all that I can to limit the outflow of cash... using coupons when I can, planning meals that are as inexpensive as I can, cutting any bad spending that creeps in (damn the book aisle at Costco) and trying to sell some of our no-longer-needed items on Kijiji.  I am in desparate need of both new bras and new pants (all my pre-pregnancy pants are falling down... and belts and I don't get along), but I'm going to have to choose between the two next month.

My Beloved asked for a cost-of-living raise, as his last one was almost two years ago, and his boss has not responded favourably, so Beloved is now in the hunt for a new job.  There are more opennings now in his field than there were in the fall, so we are choosing to be hopeful that something good may yet come.

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I'm attempting to get back into the routine I had before Pip made his appearance for taking care of our hobbit-hole.  I'm well on my way to having today's to do list completed.  I've also added some self-care things to my daily to do lists, in hopes that I will be able to carve out 20-30 minutes a day for some form of exercise.  My weightloss has plateaued at 30 pounds, so it needs something more than what I'm doing right now.  We'll see how that goes. 

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Another reason why I'm eager to get back into being active is to try to keep the PPD at bay.  Last time around, getting out and just spending that 20-30 minutes a day walking and listening to music by myself was a huge part of getting through my PPD.  I'm trying to be proactive this time around, as I know that with stopping pumping I'm going to have some crazy hormone stuff going on for the next while.

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I'll Look Back At This And Laugh moment from the weekend:  We went to visit my MIL yesterday, to see her new place.  The little town where she lives if 45 minutes south of us.  I remembered to take the breast pump, toys for Ginny, and spare outfits for both kids.  What I didn't pack was an extra shirt for me... and of course Pip decided that it was time to have a major pukey incident.  Seriously, he puked up almost a whole bottle... all over himself and me.  And I had to then sit there in a wet, smelly, pukey shirt until our visit was over, and through the drive home.  LESSON LEARNED!

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Well, I need to get back to my to-dos.  What's on your to do list for today?

5 comments :

  1. Sounds like a lot is going on in your life right now! Good for you for taking care of yourself to keep PPD at bay! You're a good mama!

    My to-do list today is to write up my to-do list for the week (done), work on laundry (in progress), make dinner (not for another three hours), and get bills paid (YICK!).

    Have a great day!

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  2. Aaaargh, tell me of finances sucking...can hear ya on that one!

    I have two pull out a file and check some number, sort Figlia's clothes yet again....that is what I want to do today besides the routine....

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  3. I find my daily stroll with Figlia very relaxing...and makes me talk to adults, see tress, kids playing....keeps the blues at bay for me too.

    :-)

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  4. Oh man! I can totally relate. Sorry about the breast feeding issues, but glad that you were able to get as much as you did. And weight loss... freaking weight loss. Gah! But especially finances. Oy. I know they say that money isn't everything, but probably people who have enough money are the ones who say that, because when you're running short and trying desperately to make those ends meet... a little more money could mean everything! Sorry you have so much going on right now! I hope it all calms down and evens out... and I hope hubby gets a huge raise out of nowhere!!! :)

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  5. I wish we lived close so we could get some exercise together! I am having body image issues right now... I am trying to figure out how to get myself in a little better shape. I could use a partner, and some accountability! I also think it will help with PPD... I feel it creeping in, I've never had it before, but this time I am WAY overwhelmed.

    On a happier note, sending positive vibes for hubs's job search! I have a feeling that there is a great opportunity awaiting him. And good for you for working so hard to give your little man a great start with breastmilk, and for knowing when it is time to move on, without guilt.

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